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Ayurveda for Maternal Wellness: Motherhood and Ayurveda

  • Writer: Shagun Ashok Gondalia
    Shagun Ashok Gondalia
  • Nov 7, 2025
  • 4 min read

Ever feel like you disappeared when you became a mum? That exhaustion you're feeling? It's not just tiredness. Motherhood shakes you to your core, and sometimes it feels like no one’s really talking about the messy bits. I reckon that’s where ancient wisdom like ayurveda can step in (saying from the personal experience) not as some magic fix, but as a gentle guide through the chaos.


Let’s have a cuppa and chat about how this old school approach can actually support your maternal wellness in a way that honours your real, raw experience.


What Ayurvedic Maternal Health Really Means


Ayurvedic maternal health isn’t about ticking boxes or following strict rules. It’s about tuning into your body’s unique rhythms and needs during pregnancy, birth, and beyond. The thing is, motherhood is a profound transformation: your body, mind, and spirit are all shifting. Ayurveda sees this as a sacred time to nurture yourself deeply.


Here’s what I know: Ayurveda breaks down health into balancing three energies or doshas: Vata, Pitta, and Kapha. Each mum’s balance looks different, especially when you’re growing a tiny human or recovering from birth. When these energies are out of whack, you might feel anxious, exhausted, or overwhelmed. But when you honour your dosha, you can find more ease and connection with yourself.


For example, if you’re feeling all over the place and restless (that’s Vata out of balance), grounding foods like warm soups and gentle routines can help. If you’re fiery and irritable (hello, Pitta), cooling herbs and calming practices might be your go-to. And if you’re sluggish or heavy (Kapha creeping in), light movement and fresh air can lift your spirits. Want to know your dosha energy, try my quiz that takes you on a journey of meeting you and your energy where you are as a mumma right now.



This isn’t about perfection. It’s about listening to your body and giving it what it truly needs.


Eye-level view of a warm bowl of Ayurvedic soup with fresh herbs
Nourishing Ayurvedic soup for maternal wellness

How Ayurveda Meets the Realities of Motherhood


Let’s be honest, motherhood is truly hard. Between sleepless nights, endless feeds, and the pressure to “bounce back,” it’s easy to lose yourself. The cultural expectations can be suffocating, especially when you’re juggling your own needs with everyone else’s.


Ayurvedic maternal health offers a way to slow down and reclaim your space. It’s not about adding more to your to-do list but about weaving simple, doable practices into your day. Think:


  • Starting your morning with a warm glass of water and a few deep breaths

  • Using gentle self-massage with oils to soothe tired muscles and calm your nervous system

  • Choosing foods that feel nourishing and easy to digest, rather than chasing the latest diet trend

  • Creating small rituals that honour your changing body and emotions


I remember feeling completely lost after my first bub. I was exhausted, anxious, and grieving and yearning for support to calm my Vata. Ayurveda helped me see that my body wasn’t broken: it was transforming. That shift in perspective made all the difference.


Close-up of a small jar of herbal oil with a wooden spoon on a rustic table
Herbal oil used for Ayurvedic self-massage in maternal care

Practical Ayurvedic Tips for Your Maternal Wellness


Here’s the thing - you don’t need to overhaul your life to benefit from Ayurvedic wisdom. It’s about small, meaningful changes that fit your reality. Here are some practical ways to bring this ancient knowledge into your motherhood:


  1. Tune into your dosha

    Spend a few minutes noticing how you feel each day. Are you restless, fiery, or heavy? This awareness helps you choose foods, activities, and rest that support your current state.


  2. Prioritise warm, nourishing meals

    Your digestion is your foundation. Warm, cooked foods like stews, porridges, and herbal teas are easier on your system and help balance your energy.


  3. Gentle self-care rituals

    Try abhyanga - a daily self-massage with warm oil. It’s grounding, calms the nervous system, and helps you reconnect with your body. You don’t need fancy oils; sesame or coconut oil works beautifully.


  4. Rest and rhythm

    Honour your body’s need for rest. It’s okay to say no and create boundaries around your time. Even short naps or quiet moments can reset your energy.


  5. Mindful movement

    Gentle yoga, walking, or stretching can help balance your doshas and release tension. Avoid pushing yourself too hard - this is about connection, not performance.


  6. Herbal allies

    Certain herbs can support maternal wellness, but always check with a qualified practitioner, especially if you’re pregnant or breastfeeding.


Remember, these aren’t rules but invitations. Your body and mind will tell you what feels right.


Navigating the Emotional Landscape with Ayurvedic Wisdom


Motherhood isn’t just physical, it’s an emotional rollercoaster. The rage, grief, joy, and exhaustion all swirl together. Ayurveda recognises this deeply. It honours the shadow and light of this transformation without sugar-coating it.


When emotions run high, grounding practices can help. For example, calming breathwork or sipping warm herbal tea can soothe a racing mind. Writing down your feelings or talking to a trusted friend can also be powerful.


The thing is, your feelings are valid. You don’t have to “get over” the hard stuff quickly or pretend everything’s fine. Ayurveda encourages you to sit with your emotions and learn from them. That rage you’re feeling? It’s got something to teach you.


This approach helps you build resilience and compassion for yourself - two things every mum deserves.


Finding Your Own Path with Ayurvedic Maternal Health


There’s no one right way to mother or to use Ayurveda. It’s about finding what works for you and your family. Maybe you start with a simple morning ritual or explore herbal teas that feel soothing. Maybe you reach out for support when things get tough.


The key is to trust yourself. You know your body and your needs better than anyone else. Ayurveda is just a tool to help you listen more closely.


If you’re curious to explore more, there are plenty of resources and personalised support options that honour your unique experience. You don’t have to do this alone.


Motherhood is a spiritual awakening, not just a role. And your wellness matters, not just for your bub, but for you.



If you’re ready to explore personalised Ayurvedic support, have a look at the offerings here. You deserve to be held and nurtured through this profound transformation.


Because honestly? You’re not broken. You’re transforming. And that’s bloody powerful.



 
 
 

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